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You deserve somebody who wants you for their boyfriend. No woman can respect a Smoke ’em if you got ’em BBQ shirt is trying to talk her into staying with him as a fill-in because her choice is unavailable. She can, however, use you as a diversion and perhaps a dinner date until either the boy in question is free or she picks another first choice. Before you get dumped on and up feeling even worse I suggest you tell her honestly since she doesn’t feel she loves you you’re setting her free to find someone that she is honestly feeling an attraction to.